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I met a girl in Izmir in 1964 who didn't speak English. I found her 4 years ago on Facebook and we have been corresponding through her son, In 2015 I went to Izmir to stay with them. I stayed 3 weeks. Her son was very very respectful and after some time until now we speak daily on Facebook or on the phone. He is 20 years younger than I am and has never been married. I have but have been divorced since 2007 (here in the states). He wants to marry me this May. We would be living with his Mom (who is my friend). They have a 3 bedroom apartment in a beautiful area 2 blocks from the sea, We would not have children. He is 50 and I am 70 (but look about 60 - according to my friends). I love Turkey and I love this family. I would have my social security and he has his job, His mother has a very small pension from the Turkish government. I would like to know what people think about this. I do not believe he or his family are using me, I do not send money or anything else. Please let me know what your ideas are before I make this big jump.

Hello, guys. Glad to have found this website,I will get to the point. Ok this may sound stupid but i am just a sucker for love and probably, young, stupid and naive and almost always online. Am a teenager (18). Okay, when i was 16 and working at a cafe, had plenty of facebook time to chat and hooked up online to this cool Turkish guy (21) who i would chat with almost non-stop for a month before he goes quiet on me for 2 months and comes back again until i decided to put a stop to it like 2 years later. I swore not to fall for a guy on internet but guess what, i succeeded for a while until another friend request came and another Turkish guy started to chat with me. I took it casually until we discovered we are sooo alike besides religion and race of course. but we discuss freely about it, he is 19 but mature. we already make plans to marry and meet... okay yeah we are crazzy. The point is, i am sometimes scared he may start to ignore me like the former Turk love chat mate i had but he has promised to start just calling me this month as chat is getting boring for him. And i also wonder if i am fooling myself by believing someone online. I am anxious this month as he promised he will start callling me eveeryday. i want it to work out, i really do. But again if it works out i am scared that he may lose his trust in me if he discovers that in the past, i had a facebook chat mate like him. he trusted me with his facebook password and email password. This was suppose to be a short post but, i guess i dont exactly know how to express myself... last question is; am i stupid to fall for someone i never met. we have made so many plans for the future and believe me he is reallly smart from our chats. he seems like someone i can live with,Thanks again.