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Hello Everyone! I have been reading stories in this forum for tow days now. I have learned a lot about Turkish men and how to date them. Honestly, I am a bit concern. I have been chatting with a Turkish man for over a week now, I am a student and he has his own shop so most of the times he is busy, and I understand it. However, at first even though he is busy he still manages to message me and even make some video call, but now he says he is busy and don't reply anymore. We had an argument last day but we already fixed it, and now he always say that he loves me. I admit, I also like him because he's really good and sweet. But now, I don't know if he's losing interest or he is just so busy. I want to ask if Turkish men are workaholic and how should I approach him, if I would like to ask him if he is serious with me. Or I am just paranoid and demanding for his time because he used to message a lot before? Can someone give me an advice. Thank you. :) -
Hello everyone before 4 months i was in Istanbul ( I am not Turkish) , i met a Turkish man twice , he asked my Instagram and i added him, after a week he start sending me messages, first of all he told me he was divorced after a marriage that last for 2 years and knew his ex-spouse for 4 years, (with no kids) he said he doesn't like her anymore,he is 35 and i am 21, he tried after while to talk dirt and try to get my number , and keep sending his number and photos and i stopped him and told him i will no longer talk to him if he didn't stop,and he stopped it and never repeat it after that,he asked me after 2 month for marriage i said yes , he said he wants to have a family and be a father , he showed me to his mother and she liked me , he said he doesn't have money to marry so i have to wait this summer or next year i offered money help he became angry for a weak from me , besides he doesn't talk too much to me frequently he sent me message before he sleep (he works till 22:30) ,talking how much he loves me and our future life and wishing if i am with him ,and i am a bit scary that he is only have fun with me and maybe because he is old he will look for a local Turkish girl and make it easy, we only have the agreement of marriage and that i will move to Istanbul to live there we did not discuss anything else, AND i can`t keep talking to him he can`t run a conversation and i feel so bad to do that instead of him and he doesn't talk too much because he doesn't know English and i do not know Turkish (Using google Translate) , recently i am learning ,,, so what do you think people ?,,,,P.S i love him and my family agreed
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I have travelled to Turkey a lot a speak the language fluently. I've only dated on Turkish man before. The relationship was very innocent so I have no experience with Turkish men in their early 20's. -
Hello! I am new to this and need some advice! I met a Turkish guy who was working In the hotel I was staying in. We hit it off and have kept in touch. (even though there is a bit of a language barrier!) He has told me he Loves me and wants to be with me but then one day from nowhere he told me he 'might' have a Turkish girlfriend! I told him we will just stay friends and nothing else... Then a few weeks later he messaged me to say they had split up because he wants to be with me and wants to Marry me! I have heard the stories about 'holiday romances' before and I don't know if I should believe him! Is he saying this to other girls he has met in the hotel? Help!
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Hello all! I was wondering if someone could lend me some advice regarding the Turkish national service. My boyfriend has said that he will be starting his 1 year service this coming January. He has already told me that for the first few weeks/month there will be little or no contact at all, but after this time he will be able to contact me for short periods of time. He also said that after May he will be able to take two weeks leave so that I can travel to Turkey and spend time with him during his leave. I am aware that it is going to be very difficult without contact as we talk all the time, and I am going to miss him very much. But I was wondering if someone has been through this experience and can advice me what it is going to be like for him, can he take his two week leave and if he will be able to contact me during the time? Also, does he get any sort of income while doing his service? Thank you in advance, Jessie
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Im in a relashionship with a Turkish hansome Guy, We are both Master degree Students, im 30 years old and he is 29. But we are been together for 2 Months but we never kiss each other, because he never ask me... I really want to kiss him, but i dont ask him, because i dont want to seen desesperate.... How long i have to wait?? How long do you waint until you receive the first kiss from Turkish boyfriend???.. -
Hiya So here is the issue. im engaged to a Turkish man who I met in Kusadasi. We have been together for 2 years now, we got engaged in November last year and plan to marry in April 2014. Ive been backwards and forwards numerous times to Turkey to visit him all of which I have always paid for. My flights, our hotel, food, drink etc. As the relationship progressed he started paying for things too except of course flights and hotels. I have sacrificed jobs in this country to be able to spend time with him. I left my good job at William Hill betting shop to spend 2 months with him in Kusadasi. I also lost 2 other jobs after that in the space of 4 months. My family disapprove of our relationship in some ways as they do not want me to marry him without them being there. We will be getting married in His village near to Nevsehir and the cost is my parents main issue. Flights, hotel etc. Since we go engaged he has been very controlling towards me, if I take clothes with me that are too "naked" as he says he wont let me wear them. In England he dosent like me going out drinking so guess what to keep him happy either I stay in or I lie to him about my where abouts. Which gets me in to trouble as he then requests a picture to prove im in bed or where I say am. Tonight I have arranged to go for tea with a friend I told him I was going because he had been invited to a friends house for tea. We meet every night on Skype. SInce I informed him im going for a meal he has now became angry and said we cant be together like this, he dosent want me in his life anymore, we cant be married etc etc. I have met his family and they fell in love with me instantly. They even asked him how he found me because we have so much in common. Ive heard the whole its over I go to finish u now crap too often but I try and make everything ok? I feel he controls my life and I don't feel I can live the way a 23 English girl should be living. Ive sacrificed so much for him and I am prepared to jump ships and move to Turkey in January to live with him and his parents on their farm. Much to my parents delight. Does anybody else on the forum have the same controlling guy as me or who has had a controlling guy? any help would be great as I really do love my man. He is 33 and acts like a 4 year old having tantrums. Big essay I no but I had to get it off my chest and where better to do it then on a forum full of people in love with Turkey and the men who live there
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