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  1. well all is going great. there is no issues with parents. I spoke to them last night on the phone. they cant speak English so I did my best with Turkish. my husbands father asked what my husband was doing and I told him in English that he was down fixing his car. he made out that he understood me but he didn't. when my husband called them back, his mother said to his father, don't lie, you didn't understand anything she said, he just roared with laughter. they loved the way I greeted his father with, effendim baba.
  2. Hi my name is nikki guler, and i would like to meet some turkish friends that can speak english.

  3. I think my words may have been misunderstood, what i meant was when his non muslim turkish friends talk about inappropriate subjects, such as girls, stripclubs, and haram activities in front of me and my husband, i tell them to stop, and tell them we dont talk like that, we are muslim remember and we are married, my husband isnt single like you guys. he also tells them. we never try to convert them or push our beliefs onto them, we just ask for some respect. Emre has nearly finished his masters, and is working as an energy auditor with his friend yucel. he spoke to his parents this week, and they told him to just concentrate on his studies and his family (me) and getting a job in his field after his masters. they dont want us to come to turkey yet until he has worked here the required time so as to defer millitary service. even if we have to pay the turkish government some money as well, we will. they say its getting too dangerous to come to turkey, and emre misses his parents so much, so i told him we will save up money and pay for them to come here for a visit. emre doesnt want permanent residency here, he doesnt want to live in australia forever, so when the time is right, and we can secure him a job overseas and have the money, we will leave australia. and we are going to start trying for baby next year. and get married in government wedding. just a small one, with the big one in turkey. and what does trolling mean by the way Fen. I really hope you werent referring to me.
  4. just moved into our new 3 bedroom home, and my daughter and her fiancee and their baby are living with us temporarily also. Emre is only 5mins form his university now and im in partnership with my libyan friend and his furniture removal company. Our marriage is getting stronger all the time, we never fight or argue and we are very much in love still. we will marry in government wedding in 1.5 years, when he finishes his masters degree. then if he can find work here in australia we will stay for maybe two years, or if he cant find work we will come to turkey or wherever the work is. his parents are great and finally emre is taking islam more seriously, thank president tayyipp for that, some of our turkish friends are gezi supporters and i let them know aussie style that we are mulslim so keep your non muslim ideas in your head or else. anyways we are going great and i hope to maybe catch up with some of you when i finally hit turkish shores.
  5. nikemre

    turkish delights.

    a glimpse into our life as an aussie turkish love match.
  6. hi just to update this topic, my husband has started his masters, ive started my courses, i discovered i can still have children, i fell pregnant, we had to terminate due to my health at the time, i was ill.he was devastated,and so was i. his parents have accepted me and send me gifts. we are still so in love. the subject of legal marriage has come up but we would only do it in australia so i could take his last name. the important one will be in turkey. we are always planning for the future and have been very happy together, i think my fears were normal before, but they are gone now. thanks for your support and your comments.
  7. thanks for your replys, but just to clarify a few things first. we are married in the eyes of ALLAH, which really is all that matters at the moment. we cannot afford a government wedding let alone two. there would not be many family members on my side that would warrant having one here. he did not apply for permanent visa, just temporary so he can work longer hours, as we both work to save for his masters degree next feb. we applied under defacto. his family know about me now and they are ok about it. he is going to tell them we married in mosque, but next year is a better time to tell them, when he is doing his masters degree. his father always told him not to marry before he got his masters or started his career. he doesnt want to anger his father just yet. his younger brother got into medical school so his father was happy, thats when he told him about me, and he was cool. there are women in turkey that wear abaya and hijab, i wouldnt always wear it, but most probably hijab to go outside. my husband loves me very much and he is not here to take advantage of me. we fell in love plain and simple. he will do his masters, find a job here or overseas if need be, save lots of money, then buy house in turkey and we will go there to live. i actually cant fall pregnant so i may be sterile. ill get treatments to fall pregnant but if all else fails he told me we can adopt in turkey. when i say his parents need time, i mean that they are very strict and conservative and want the best for their kids, education comes first then comes career, then marriage. but they seem to be ok that he is in a relationship so thats a very good sign. thank you for your help.
  8. two words for you dear........CALL HIM. any man who does not push you for sex is a keeper, i know cause i married a turk, im 40 hes 26, he didnt touch me for one month. he is here in australia studying, we are planning our life together and taking things one step at a time. you wont know how he feels if you dont ask him. good luck.
  9. well we finally got the partnership visa for my husband. he told his father that he has a muslim girlfriend,thats me, and his father said he was glad to hear that as he was worried his son was gay haha. he said that she must be good because this is the first time you have ever told me about a girl in your life. my husband wants to wait until he is doing his master degree next year before he tells them he married me in mosque. he says his parents are the type to overreact, so he needs to give them time and also wants to marry me in government marriage in turkey with his family and friends there. we hope they are going to be ok with it, and inshallah everything will turn out ok.
  10. thank you all so much for your comments, to make things clearer, the reason i said august as the the time he will tell his parents, is because he is waiting on his younger brothers exam results to be finalised, in august, which will determine if his brother gets into medical university, then his parents will be overjoyed and relaxed, hence a good time to tell them about us. also i am willing to have children still, but if my body cant medically do it, then my husband told me he is happy to adopt a turkish baby. we are in australia, his parents are in turkey. we are both working to save money for his master degree next year. he does not want residency here, just his masters and then a job in his field, but if cant find one here we go overseas. we married in the mosque in a religious ceremony, not government, he wants to wait till hes done his masters and we have enough money and stability to afford the perfect wedding with his family and friends there. i just want his parents to be happy for him, and to accept his choice in me as his wife. i am muslim, i am obedient, i cook very well, im clean, im loyal, im faithful, i wear hijab and abaya outside, ive changed so much of myself to serve allah, and to please my husband, i fear that any form of rejection from his parents will either make me give up islam completly, or go deeper into it with or without my husband. i think my future will be decided at the end of august. thank you.
  11. my husband and i are worried about telling his parents about me. i am 40 he is 26. we have been together for over a year. he will tell them in august, im concerned of their reaction,and we are both muslim and married in islam.i look very young for my age. any info would be great thanks.i pray some one can give me some advice on this.
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