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Anitaswalwell, most families have their own complications of one sort or another if you scratch the surface a little, I hope things get resolved for your sister and I hope your mum doesn't get hurt. Like Abi I haven't heard anything about investigations of older / younger relationships and I can't imagine how it would be done.

Good luck from me too, hope the future is great for you both

Louisecos11 and Martyna I hope the time passes quickly for both of you and the future brings lots of happiness

Virtue7 I am not sure I can offer any more wisdom that the earlier posts except maybe seeing things from you wife's point of view, she is probably lonely and missing you and frustrated with herself because she has to be in Turkey to repeat her college work, I wouldn't dismiss the value of your 100000 facebook messages because in a long distance relationship they are your communication they can be as meaningful or as worthless as any means of communication and extending that thought her anger and jealousy over your addition of a new female friend is the equivalent of in a 'normal' relationship you arriving home from work late and saying I met up with X an old friend I am sure I told you about her etc etc and the ensuing argument, the jealousy may be petty and irrational but maybe it is grounded in her own insecurities and unhappiness and when is love ever rational? Sorry I don't have a fix it to offer but patience, empathy, stability and for sure keeping your lips sealed may be your best and only options right now and though it may be difficult view your facebook page as her window to your life and take care how you manage it, I don't mean be deceitful but be aware of her sensitivities during this time you are apart, I wish you both luck and happiness in the future whatever it holds for you both.

and how many men get told the truth....... my options would be I have been saving myself for you darling (those strecthmarks the result of rapid growth spurt in my teens, thats not a c-section scar I just had a very big appendix) or belt out a few bars of Madonna's like a virgin or depending on where the relationship is at the answer could be enough to know you are not up to much

hi and welcome fuzzy I can't really add to the great advice here but wish you luck and happiness with whatever you decide

exciting times for you I hope everything goes perfectly, enjoy!

depending on the time of the day and the length of the delay if both flights are turkish airlines they offer a free city tour while you wait might be worth checking outlibby,

congratulations, you look beautiful together, wishing you both happy ever after

LibbyCongratulations to you and Kaan, I hope these days apart pass quickly for you both

happy days!

congratulations, I figure with his pension and your book sales life is going to be good for you Vic!

Congratulations

Vic hope you get the good news you deserve today