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  1. Ok. I don't know why I wrote "I pays" , must be a autocorrection :p He pays himself.
  2. He didn't ask me to pay for him. He pays by himself. But is it the war or?
  3. I have a turkish friend, he told me he has to go to the army for three weeks if I pays for it. Only for thos weeks, but what is the point? what are they doing only during those three weeks? is it war, or only military? i didn't want to ask him to much..but he didn't seem so worried in the messages.
  4. How is it? Is it as bad as some peoples say? Earnings are not good. Possibilities doen't seem so good. Education does not seem good either. i dont want to be arrogant, cause I love Turkey. Its most beutiful place and people is nice. But when I say that I maybe want to move there, find a man or something, everybody becomes so negative.
  5. And, I realize that I have been judging him. I had so much anxiety, bad self confidence and I saw just the hurdles/barriers with this "realationship". Here is what I though: - He just wants sex, to play. Have me as fun, because it is what "norwegian girls are for". Turkish people don't tell me this, but other norwegians. - He would think I was a whorer if I went out with him. - At the end, he will dump me to find a turkish woman. - It is hard to move a turk to Norway. - He only wants a norwegian passport. This happens, but most in the touristic areas. Norwegian girls marrying t
  6. Hello. We messaged togheter and you did not answer my last message. We found out, it is not the same man. My future boyfriend does really not need to be a turkish guy! The easiest would be a man who does not need a lot of paper and different religion. But, heart wants what the heart wants. Check ur inbox, maybe U'll see my last message.
  7. Ok, the time is passing. I live my life, he lives he's life. Haven't heard from him since 2 months now. I also don't know when I'm going back to Turkey, but I will. It's just not easy for me to let the idea about us go away. It was me, that was not honest to my self about my feelings. I would act different if he was texting me today, but past is the past. I don't feel that it is ok to just contact him. If I do, I will just wonder "why does he write that" "why does he not write that...." and so goes on. I feel it will be disrespectful. Yesterday, I watched something on tv, a guy was ma
  8. Thank you so much. I will check it out. I so badly want to send hin one message, but why do I feel so bad when I see that he is online so often during the evening.. I think maybe he is writing other girls just for fun. He was writing me so often during e evenings when we first met to. No, another one...is what I think. But this is just thoughts.... I know I'm to negative sometimes. I was about to send him now, but when he is already online, Im afraid I will be disturbing to him.
  9. Ok, Norway The problem that this guy is religious is that I maybe think they sre brainwashed. When I say to my friends I really like somebody and telling where he is from, they start ask a lot. "But is he religious or something?". "Omg, I would really awoid any religious guy" specially when its Islam. Older guys in family and husbands of my parents friends, "they will brainwash you""It may be fine, until you are getting kids togheter"(I dont know why the kids belongs to the father. Or why the rumours say so!) but I hear it every time. If Islam is good...why do so many women n
  10. Thank you so wery much for this! I stay in Turkey for longer periods when I am here yes. I am from one of the scandinavian countries i dont know why im uncomfortable telling wich, but perhaps somebody will recognize me or something, i dont think so. I just want to be shure. Im in Tukrey for my 3rd time, and i really love it. I want to learn turkish but it so hard. I already started a bit. And i've being here 3 times alreasy without going out with him. Just met him randomly and its hard to talk. I dont know what to say, I dont know what he thinks. We say "hi, and how are you". When we ar
  11. Thank you. The strange thing is, I don't want him to think that I'm into him. I just want to keep the contact, that's the first thing. I already had a lot of changes to meet him. And I enjoyed the attention to much. I liked that he wrote me, but I start feeling something. And actually, I'm a bit to jalous to have a bf like this. He knows a lot of girls. Not like a player/lover with them, but female friends and I'm always afraid that one of them also might be in love with him. I just want to show that I want to reciprocate the contact/friendship. I also feel so unnormal....I've been
  12. Thanks for your answers. Ihave to send him a messange this evening, finally. The issue is that I can't see sny furthure with him, maybe a furthure, but not a easy and good one, because of the surroundings. I have been meeting him randomly a few times now, and its not easy to talk to eachother. I dont dare go up to him when o see him, togheter with his friends. And he does not to me. When we was close and met eachothers eyes, we just say "hi, how are u". 1 week ago i posted a story on insta when i was on a restaurant with friends. He answered and asked if i went to party. I answered i was
  13. Well, yes, from west Europe i think you know the culture there?
  14. Why? I don't know why I'm uncomfortable telling that west european country.
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