This is a crossroad for me. I am American and live in the U.S. I have been corresponding with a very nice gentleman that is Turkish and lives there. We haven't met in person yet, but we e-mail sometimes up to 5 times a day. We've grown increasingly fond of each other, so much so that he would like to come to America and marry me. I don't want to think with my heart with this because I've heard some horror stories. Like using me to obtain a Visa, or wanting money. I really need some information regarding all of this. I'm being very cautious and not one to just jump into something without researching it. We're both middle-age with adult children. I welcome any information about Turkish customs, lifestyles, religious beliefs, etc. We've known each other now for over 2 years.