Dolphin Bar Waiters?
Posted 03 December 2011 - 12:27 AM
080510 until forever!
Posted 03 December 2011 - 09:55 AM
Hi Istanbul, I think for you to compare the women who go to Didim with the dirty old men who go to Thailand is rather unfair! I have been to both Thailand and Malaysia and the vast majority of men who go there do so because they're paedophiles or looking for Ladyboys.. I've seen with my own eyes men (of all ages too - from 20s to 80s) and from various countries - the UK, Germany, America, Australia etc..walking through the hotel lobby with a girl who looks to be about 10!!
Is what I said unfair? If so, please tell me how. The majority of foreigners who visit Didim are English. Those bars are full of English women more than willing to have sex with the waiters. Dirty old men goto Thailand, dirty old women goto Didim. That's the sad truth of the matter. If this was not the case the waiters wouldn't behave as they do.
I live in Ankara and know what 'real Turkey' is. Turks do not behave like the pests that are called waiters in Didim. I have an apartment in Didim and I'm currently in the process of selling is because the area quite frankly no longer appeals to me.
Of course some of the men go there for cheap sex with women who are above the legal age too, but I don't feel you can compare these men with the women who frequent Turkey looking for a Turkish man to have a fling with. There are some English, Scottish, Irish, Welsh women (including those from mainland Europe) who possibly do go to Turkey because they know they're almost guaranteed sex, but they're not paedophiles! And they're not all old women either. Many young girls go to Turkey to get chatted up too!
I can't speak for Didim itself (I've only been there once and left as quickly as possible..... ....) but Marmaris and Icmeler are just as bad with the waiter scenarios. I have been told that the men who work in tourism and are looking for sex, vizas etc, go to work the season in Marmaris, Icmeler, Kusadasi, Altinkum and Gumbet specifically, because they're large resorts with lots of female tourists, and they hear rumours from other resort workers that the women who go there are very open minded, and I'm loathe to say this, but they believe the women are low class and easy to have sex with. I hope that doesn't offend, it's just what I've been told. I don't think the problem is as bad in places such as Kalkan or Kas, which is why typical love rat waiters wouldn't choose to work those resorts, altough there's probably a few lurking about in obscure resoorts. Of course, the internet has taken over now, so love rats from anywhere in Turkey can just meet a woman online by going into a chatroom or pulling one off facebook, so the waiters now have competition from allsorts, shop workers, office workers, drivers, teachers, students, professionals...a whole range of professions!
Your comment..... 'about Dirty old men goto Thailand, dirty old women goto Didim. That's the sad truth of the matter. If this was not the case the waiters wouldn't behave as they do.'
If the waiters had any pride and self respect they wouldn't have sex with these women they don't fancy!! The women aren't putting a gun to their heads! These type of women wouldn't go to Turkey if they knew certain Turkish men weren't willing to have sex with almost anyone. And however desperate the women may come across it's always the men who are PESTS! They behave like wasps! I know some women throw themselves at any man but generally it's the men who do all the incessant chasing!! They even manage to find you in the comfort of your home now by popping up on your computer!!! If you have any connection to Turkey the viza/sex/money hunters will sniff you out on the www!!
Posted 03 December 2011 - 11:11 AM
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Posted 03 December 2011 - 11:16 PM