Hi Dutchy,
Sorry, sometimes we start using abbreviations without realizing not everybody understands them! PM stands for "private message." To send one, you can click on the user name of a person posting, and you'll see an option for sending a message.
The other option is clicking on the "Members" link near the upper right, and using the search function for finding the member, then click on their user name and clicking the option to send a message.
Unfortunately, if these lawyers are not members of the forum, they can't receive private messages inside the forum. We do have listings of English-speaking lawyers for each city. For example, if you go to www.turkeycentral.com/bodrum or www.turkeycentral.com/istanbul, (works with most cities even though not all of the pages in these sections are complete yet) you'll find a menu selection to a list of English-speaking lawyers. You'll see that Lawyer is Elifsu Sen, who is a member here and works in Bodrum, and LawyerinIzmir is Sahabbatin Yilmaz as mentioned above.
Sometimes it will depend on where you are, that is, if you have a case in Istanbul and have a lawyer in Izmir, he or she may have to travel a long distance to do certain things, so in those cases it's best to find a lawyer in the city where you need them.
The forum has its own messaging system, like a private e-mail system. You can also send an e-mail to a member if they have configured their settings to allow members to send e-mails. It's a great system because the e-mail addresses aren't displayed, they're kept internally so nobody receives spam e-mails.
We have some info about using the forum under the "Using the Forum" forum, but if anything's not addressed there, you can send me a private message "PM" and I'll help you out!