Yes, exactly, they're very curious and so this is not a cultural issue I have with the official citizenship people. It may be discrimination on their part, but I have no control over that.
I think my questions are not at all unreasonable to be asking now since I am about to get the "tourist" (I know it's not really called that) residence permit which is the question...do those count towards citizenship? Some say yes here, but officials say no way and they are not confused with a tourist visa, they know what ikamet means. They are concerned with the purpose of stay under the ikamet and it seems to be in the law (which I have posted numerous times on this forum, but no one here knows if that law is important because you aren't familiar with it...don't assume there is no answer just because you don't know). Anyway..
Other question that has a clear answer, but nobody knows here I guess is, I am the mother of my now 2 year old will she get citizenship through me once I have my Turkey kimlik? I will go bother some lawyers but to say that my questions can not possibly have answers, makes no sense. If there is no useful info, I think I will stop posting about this here, I am getting tired of repeating myself.